R.I.P. Ryan Francis 1986-2007

This blog entry will be solely dedicated to the memory of Ryan Francis, a classmate and friend.

On the afternoon of Sunday, January 28, 2007, Ryan collapsed while on the sidelines of a friendly rugby match and could not be revived. The exact cause of death is currently unclear to me, being so far from where it happened, and receiving various different reports from people back home.

I went to high school with Ryan, and we shared a passion for the sport of hockey. Since our high school days, we have had many conversations about the latest N.H.L. transactions or scores on MSN and the like. Ryan was an active participant in the various online hockey pools and leagues that I ran.

I last spoke to Ryan on the morning of the 28th via MSN Messenger, as the trade deadline in one of our leagues was approaching, and I wanted to work out a deal with him. We did, and then briefly discussed how things were in Montreal, as I am currently out in France. He ended by expressing his dislike of Charles de Gaulle airport. Little did I know that would be the last time I'd ever speak to him.

Ryan, you will be missed greatly by everyone who knew you. You were a kind and happy soul. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Ryan's friends and family who must be going through a very tough time.

I'm in shock right now, but this is a moment to reflect on the fragility of life. People need to make the most of their time on earth, and aim to live every minute as if it were their last. Because you never know when your day might come.

Never say goodbye or goodnight angry at someone that you might someday regret being upset with. Express your feelings openly to those you care about, cherish your friends, family, and loved ones, and let them know it.

Ryan, I'm sure there are many you never got a chance to say things to that you wanted to, but I'm sure, in their hearts, they already knew it. And for those of us who never got the chance to say goodbye to Ryan, I'm sure he knows how we felt about him as well.

R.I.P. Ryan Francis

Your friend,

Dan